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Reverse Mortgage Counseling

Before you apply for a HECM, you must complete counseling with a HUD-approved counselor who doesn't work for any lender. The session covers how the loan works, what it costs, your ongoing obligations, and other options you may have, and it usually takes about an hour or more by phone, video, or in person. Every borrower attends, and so does a spouse who won't be on the loan. Afterward you get a counseling certificate, which is generally good for 180 days. In California, there's also a 7-day wait after counseling before a full application can be taken.

We all know the old saying about buying a car: the salesperson is not your friend. Reverse mortgage counseling exists so you don't have to wonder.

Before you can apply for a HECM, HUD requires you to sit down, by phone, video, or in person, with a counselor who doesn't work for me, for any lender, or for anyone else who makes money on your loan. Their only job is to make sure you understand what you're getting into and what else you could do instead.

I'm a fan. The best clients I work with come out of counseling with good questions, and nobody comes out of it surprised.

The short version

  • It's required before a lender can process a HECM application, with a narrow exception for some HECM refinances.
  • The counselor is independent. They can't work for the lender, the broker, or the servicer.
  • Every borrower attends, and so does a spouse who won't be on the loan.
  • It usually takes about an hour or more, by phone, video, or in person.
  • There may be a fee, often paid at closing, and you can't be refused your certificate because you can't afford it.
  • You'll answer ten questions during the session to show you understand the loan. Five right is enough.
  • Your certificate is generally good for 180 days.
  • In California, add a 7-day wait after counseling before a full application.

Why counseling exists

A reverse mortgage is different from any loan you've had before. The balance goes up instead of down. You don't make required monthly mortgage payments, but you must continue to pay property taxes and homeowners insurance, maintain the home, and meet the other loan terms. The loan comes due later, often after you're gone, which means your family is part of the picture.

That's a lot to understand, and HUD decided long ago that nobody should take out a HECM without hearing it from a neutral party first. The rule is part of HUD's regulations for the program.

Who has to attend

  • Every borrower on the loan.
  • A non-borrowing spouse, meaning a spouse who won't be on the loan, usually because they're under 62. HUD requires them to receive counseling too. See the Non-Borrowing Spouse guide.
  • Anyone else on title who won't be a borrower.

Family members are welcome, and I encourage it. If your kids or your financial advisor will have opinions later, it helps for them to hear the same thing you hear.

What the counselor covers

HUD's counseling protocol spells out what the counselor has to go over. Expect to talk about:

  • How a reverse mortgage works, including how the balance grows.
  • The types of reverse mortgages, including fixed and adjustable HECMs and, if relevant, proprietary programs.
  • How you can receive the money: lump sum, monthly payouts, line of credit, or a mix.
  • The costs, including mortgage insurance and closing costs. See Reverse Mortgage Costs.
  • Your obligations: living in the home, paying property taxes and homeowners insurance, keeping up the home, and meeting the other loan terms.
  • When the loan comes due, and what that means for your spouse and your heirs. See Reverse Mortgages and Heirs.
  • Your budget, and whether you can keep up with the home over time.
  • Other options, like selling, downsizing, local property tax programs, or other loans.
  • Scams and red flags to watch for.

Bring your estimate if you have one. A good counselor will walk through your actual numbers with you.

The ten questions

During the session, the counselor asks you ten questions to check that you understood the loan. Things like who owns the home, whether you'll have a monthly payment, and when the loan has to be paid back.

Here's the part a lot of people have backwards: you need to get at least five right to receive your certificate in that session. If you can't, the counselor offers more help, another session, or more time.

I've written a whole article on the questions and how to answer them: 10 Questions To Know For Reverse Mortgage Counseling.

How long it takes

A session usually runs about 60 to 90 minutes. It can take longer if you have a lot of questions, and that's fine. Better to ask in counseling than after closing.

What it costs

Many counseling agencies charge a fee. HUD rules say the fee can't be more than the actual cost of the counseling, and you can't be denied your certificate because you can't pay. In many cases the fee is paid at closing out of the loan. Some agencies waive it for people with limited income.

Ask about the fee when you call to schedule. No surprises.

How to find a counselor

HUD keeps a list of approved counseling agencies. You can search HUD's housing counselor list online, or call HUD at 800-569-4287.

When you work with us, I'll also give you a list of approved agencies to choose from. You pick the agency and you make the call. I don't get to choose your counselor, and that's the point.

Phone, video, or in person?

Most sessions today happen by phone or video. In-person sessions are available in some areas. Choose whatever lets you focus and ask questions comfortably. If hearing on the phone is hard, ask for video or in person.

How to prepare

Bring:

  • Your questions, written down.
  • Your latest mortgage statement, if you have a mortgage.
  • Your property tax bill and homeowners insurance bill.
  • A rough monthly budget: income, regular bills, and anything big coming up.
  • Your reverse mortgage estimate, if you've already talked with us.
  • Your spouse, and anyone else who needs to be there.

And read up first. How a Reverse Mortgage Works and Reverse Mortgage Pros and Cons cover most of what you'll discuss.

After counseling: your certificate

When you finish, the agency sends you a counseling certificate, form HUD-92902. Every borrower and non-borrowing spouse signs it. Your loan can't move forward without it.

How long it lasts

The certificate is generally good for 180 days. If your FHA case number is assigned within that window, the certificate stays good for that case. For the details, see When does a counseling certificate expire?

California's extra rules

If your home is in California, state law adds a few steps on top of HUD's:

  • A 7-day wait. A lender can't accept a final and complete reverse mortgage application, or charge you fees, until 7 days after you complete counseling. See Why do I need to wait 7 days after counseling?
  • A notice and a worksheet. You receive a written notice before counseling, and you and your counselor sign a short worksheet of questions to think through. The loan can't be approved until the lender has it.

That's one more reason I like doing counseling early, before you're under contract on a purchase or up against a deadline.

Counseling for other reverse mortgages

Proprietary (jumbo) reverse mortgages

Many proprietary programs also require independent counseling, and some states, like California, require it by law. It's a good idea for the counseling to cover the specific program you're considering, since some lenders require that. If you're comparing a HECM and a jumbo, tell your counselor so they can cover both. See Proprietary (Jumbo) Reverse Mortgages.

Refinancing one HECM into another

If you're refinancing an existing HECM into a new one, FHA lets counseling be waived only when every condition is met: your application is within five years of your original HECM's closing date (not your latest refinance), you've received HUD's anti-churning disclosure, the refinance passes the five times test, the spouse rules line up, and nobody new is being added to the loan. Even then, counseling can't be waived in 13 states: California, Connecticut, Delaware, Indiana, Massachusetts, Minnesota, New York, North Carolina, Pennsylvania, Rhode Island, Tennessee, Texas, and Vermont. If you're in California or Texas, plan on counseling. See Is counseling required for HECM to HECM refinances? and Reverse Mortgage Refinance.

Red flags counseling can help you spot

Counselors are trained to warn you about the things I worry about too:

  • Anyone pressuring you to use reverse mortgage money to buy an annuity, an insurance policy, or an investment. In California, requiring an annuity is against the law.
  • Anyone rushing you to sign.
  • A family member or "friend" who seems more excited about the money than you are.
  • Contractors who show up offering repairs "paid for" by a reverse mortgage.

If something feels off, tell the counselor. That's what they're there for.

Where people get tripped up

  • Scheduling counseling last. It can hold up a purchase or a payoff. Do it early.
  • Leaving the spouse out. A non-borrowing spouse has to attend too.
  • Letting the certificate expire. Watch the 180 days.
  • Forgetting California's 7 days. Build it into your timeline.
  • Going in cold. Read up first, and bring your numbers.

Common questions

Is reverse mortgage counseling required?

Yes, before you apply, for almost every HECM. The only exception is some HECM-to-HECM refinances, where counseling can sometimes be waived, but never in California, Texas, and 11 other states. Many proprietary programs require it too, and some states require it by law.

Can my lender or loan officer be my counselor?

No. The counselor must work for an independent, HUD-approved agency with no ties to anyone originating, servicing, or funding your loan.

Does my spouse have to attend if they're not on the loan?

Yes. HUD requires non-borrowing spouses to receive counseling.

Can I do counseling by phone?

Yes. Most sessions are by phone or video.

How much does counseling cost?

It varies by agency. The fee has to be reasonable for the service, it's often paid at closing, and you can't be turned away because you can't pay.

What if I don't pass the ten questions?

The counselor offers more help or another session. Five correct answers out of ten is enough. See 10 Questions To Know For Reverse Mortgage Counseling.

How long is my certificate good for?

Generally 180 days.

Does counseling commit me to the loan?

No. Counseling is information, not a commitment. You can walk away at any point before closing.

Next step

If you're thinking about a reverse mortgage, I'm happy to go over your numbers before counseling, so you walk in prepared. Get your estimate, start your reverse mortgage review, or call us at 530-888-6000.

Sources

  • 24 CFR Part 206, Home Equity Conversion Mortgage Insurance: ecfr.gov
  • HUD Housing Counseling Program Handbook 7610.1: hud.gov
  • HUD Housing Counseling Handbook guide, Reverse Mortgage Housing Counseling: hudexchange.info
  • HUD Mortgagee Letter 2011-31, HECM counseling certificate: hud.gov
  • Certificate of HECM Counseling, form HUD-92902: hud.gov
  • Consumer Financial Protection Bureau, reverse mortgages: consumerfinance.gov

ZYNG Mortgage, Inc., NMLS #76801. A reverse mortgage has no required monthly mortgage payments and uses your home's equity. Fees, mortgage insurance and other costs can be added to the loan balance, and the balance grows over time as interest is added, so your equity typically decreases. When the loan becomes due, the home may need to be sold, or the loan repaid from other funds. Interest is not tax-deductible until it is paid, in part or in full. You keep title to your home and must keep paying property taxes, homeowners insurance and upkeep, and meet the other loan terms; not doing so can make the loan due and could lead to foreclosure.

This material is not from HUD or FHA and was not approved by HUD or a government agency.

HECM count at the top of this page: HUD data through September 2026 (source, opens in a new tab).

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