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Reverse mortgage question

My brother-in-law is in real estate. Can I order the appraisal through him?

No. Federal appraisal independence rules mean your lender orders the appraisal, usually through an appraisal management company (AMC), not you, a relative, or a real estate agent. An appraisal you order yourself can't be used for the loan, so you'd be out whatever you paid for it. Your brother-in-law can still help in other ways, like pulling recent sales or walking through the home with you before the appraiser arrives.

I understand the thinking. You know someone in the business, he knows your neighborhood, and it seems like it would save time. But the answer is no, and the reason protects you.

Why we can't use it

After the housing crisis, federal rules put a wall between the people involved in a loan and the person deciding what the home is worth. The idea is simple: nobody with a stake in the deal should be able to pick the appraiser or lean on the number.

So for your reverse mortgage:

  • Your lender orders the appraisal, usually through an appraisal management company (AMC).
  • The lender or its AMC assigns the appraiser. For a HECM, it has to be an appraiser on FHA's roster.
  • Neither you, nor we, nor a relative, nor a real estate agent picks who shows up.

An AMC helps keep originators like us separate from the appraisers. If you order an appraisal yourself, we can't use the report, and you'd be out whatever you spent on it.

This has nothing to do with your brother-in-law's honesty. The rule applies to everyone. A relative in real estate is exactly the kind of connection the rules are written around.

How he can still help

He can't order it, but he can be useful:

  • Pull recent sales of similar homes nearby. You can pass those to your loan officer, who can share them for the appraiser to consider. The appraiser decides what to use.
  • Help you make a list of improvements you've made, with rough dates: a new roof, a remodeled kitchen, solar, HVAC.
  • Walk through the home with you beforehand and point out anything that might be flagged, like a missing handrail or peeling paint.

What nobody can do is pressure the appraiser toward a number. That includes calling them, hinting at a value, or asking them to "find" one.

What to expect from the appraisal

  • An FHA appraiser visits the home, inside and out, and writes up the value and condition.
  • HECM appraisals go through an FHA review, and sometimes a second appraisal is required. If that happens on one of our loans, ZYNG often covers the cost. See Is there a situation where I would need 2 appraisals?
  • You'll get a copy of the appraisal.
  • If something needs repair, we'll talk about whether it can be done after closing or has to be done first.

What to do next

Get your list of improvements together. Once your application is in, the lender will order the appraisal. Call us at 530-888-6000 with any questions. See How a Reverse Mortgage Works for the full process.

Sources

  • Regulation Z, 12 CFR 1026.42, Valuation independence (CFPB): consumerfinance.gov
  • HUD Single Family Housing Policy Handbook 4000.1: hud.gov

ZYNG Mortgage, Inc., NMLS #76801. A reverse mortgage has no required monthly mortgage payments and uses your home's equity. Fees, mortgage insurance and other costs can be added to the loan balance, and the balance grows over time as interest is added, so your equity typically decreases. When the loan becomes due, the home may need to be sold, or the loan repaid from other funds. Interest is not tax-deductible until it is paid, in part or in full. You keep title to your home and must keep paying property taxes, homeowners insurance and upkeep, and meet the other loan terms; not doing so can make the loan due and could lead to foreclosure.

This material is not from HUD or FHA and was not approved by HUD or a government agency.

HECM count at the top of this page: HUD data through September 2026 (source, opens in a new tab).

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